Messages From The Other Side?
|Rich Resuta and Ariel, January 2012, on top of Flagstaff Mountain, Boulder, Colorado|
Being Psychic You See The Good and The Bad
|Rich, Ariel’s 16th birthday Scott Carpenter Park, CO 2012|
|Rich Resuta, David Gates, Jennifer, Ariel and Gunner in Alpharetta, Georgia|
When we sat in our booth at Chili’s Saturday, June 1st, in Lancaster, California hungrily awaiting our order to be delivered we were both taken by complete surprise by the song that suddenly began to play. Yes, it was Guster, The Center of Attention. Ariel and I immediate looked at each other and burst into tears. We could feel his presence. Ariel was sitting across the table from me wearing her father’s marathon shirt a week after the Boulder Boulder where Adam, my oldest son experienced Rich’s presence.
|Adam and Ariel – Milton C.C. 2011|
In his typical taunting voice he always used when he said my name. Personalities come across the ethers. Their voice remains the same, as does their energy. I am a medium. Spirits talk to me. I hear the voices of St. Germain, Archangel Michael and others on a daily basis. When you sense energy blueprints, you come to recognize people just by their energy rather than their physical presence.
|Adam and David Gates|
he asked Rich to help him. He felt his presence and was able to create a beautiful piece of furniture with little knowledge and expertise.
|David and Ashley Gates 2010|
David said, he could not have built it without Rich.
I use brackets here, because every time I use the word death, or died in reference to him or my friends, Diana Davis or JoAnne Butler, who also transitioned within weeks of each other, they all say, “WE ARE NOT DEAD!” The difference is that they are not in physical form. They are still very much alive. They think, they feel and they experience. Just like we do in a physical body. Rich has such a sense of humor he even showed up in my dream one night, having explicit oral sex with me! It was not a dream, it was very real. I had to make it very clear this was not okay. It never happened again. Rich laughed about it afterward. He thought it was funny. So I know first hand that Spirits can do a lot of things, like play music when they want to get your attention. They can also come into your dreams if they choose to get a message to you. Rich remained hopeful that we would be intimate that last year when he visited us in Boulder, Co. I was not interested in going there, hence his visit to me in my dream after his transition.
|Rich, David and Adam – Ariel’s choral concert|
|Ariel looking like Rich in his shirt at Chili’s|
|Ariel, Mojave Desert, CA 2012 in her Dad’s truck|
|Adam and David Gates, Jennifer and Ariel|
was opened in 2001 and was closed in September 2011 when Ariel and I moved to Boulder, Colorado. Giving credit where credit is due, had it not been for his encouragement, I know I would never have taken the leap from Master Gardener to landscape professional. I also give Rich credit for helping to end my pity party of victimization. Our marriage was tumultuous; a soul mate relationship. Not the idyllic kind you hear about in books. It was difficult, challenging and life altering. He gave me the gift of Ariel at 41. Soul mate relationships are all about making monumental changes in one’s life. That he did. All of my kids worked for For Heaven Scapes at different times. This company provided me the impetus to continue to be entrepreneurial, rather than return to corporate America. Working in the dirt, creating beautiful landscapes for my clients was my passion for over 10 years. It gave me great joy and grounded me, teaching me many lessons about the earth and how everything is alive. I experienced the consciousness of trees and plants during this time for the first time. I came to the understanding that God consciousness is in every rock, tree, blade of grass and every flower. When you look back to see who it was that gave you the impetus to move you beyond your small self, it is time to take note and be Grateful. I am grateful to Rich Resuta and all the lessons he gave me, big and small. They shattered what I thought was reality and moved me to a higher plane of existence. He continues to make comments to me about our daughter, Ariel. In Albuquerque, New Mexico he strongly commented about me letter Ariel and Tessa
|Ariel Resuta and Tessa|
out without any known curfew. On his insistence I called Ariel and had them return to our hotel room. Ariel was relieved as Tessa was on the verge of getting them into some trouble that could have been dangerous.