The Positive Side of Sexual Dysfunction
By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters
Sex can be wonderful when things go well. It can feel like a nightmare when a penis doesn’t function like we think it should. Sex can be frustrating when a woman struggles with orgasm. Sexual dysfunction can happen to anyone. There are many reasons for issues with sexual mishaps or mis-fires.
HTP – The Hair Trigger Penis
The Hair Trigger Penis, is a phrase I have coined because it sounds so much more fun than Premature Ejaculation. When Quick Draw McGraw shows up for a sexual encounter, most women sigh with disappointment. It can be hugely frustrating when a woman just begins to feel arousal happening and her male counterpart, comes too quickly. For those men who have had this issue, you already know that age does not cure it. Time does not change it and thinking about it does nothing either.
The underlying cause of Premature Ejaculation – HTP is rage. Yes, sir! It is rage. When you clear the anger away that is deep inside and hidden, this issue goes away. Most of you are not even aware that there is deep anger or rage brewing beneath your calm exterior. However, there are as many men who are quite aware that they are like a wood stove that somebody threw Kerosene on, volatile!
One of the issues that I help men with is HTP. I have several different ways to clear this issue. However, you have to seek help. I recently talked to a woman who’s partner is an alcoholic. He has always had the issue of HTP. Sex is over before she has even gotten close to an orgasm. Without a vibrator, her personal savior, she would be a very frustrated and angry woman. Please men, do something about it. It is not her fault that you come too quickly. This is your issue. Do something about it. Get some help. Hire a sex therapist. Hire me.
We all have heard of Viagra. There are other pills that have been created to fix a soft penis.
Millions of men have faced the embarrassment of having a penis that won’t get hard. It can be that you are not attracted to the person you are trying to have sex with. It could be that you feel guilty for having sex with this person. It could also be that you are in a repeating paradigm because of a previous malfunction and have replicated the fear over and over. You need to have the programming changed. Having the issues cleared and working with NLP (Neurolinguistic Programming) I can usually eliminate the issue within two to three sessions. Each person is different, however, I have had great luck with NLP and an energy clearing. I am not an advocate of taking medicine when it is not necessary. I prefer to get to the root of the issue. Medicines often mask the underlying issue – like placing a band aid over a chain saw cut. It doesn’t really fix the problem.
Some Causes of ED are the following:
- Heart Disease
- Poor Diet
- Emotional Reasons
- Fear of ED
- Repeating Fear of ED
- Guilt for cheating
- Guilt for having sex with this person
- Not being attracted to your partner
- Extreme Fatigue
Women Who Can’t Orgasm
There are just as many reasons why a woman can’t reach orgasm as there are for Erectile Dysfunction. Most often the reason is psychological. Sexual Trauma in childhood can cause a woman to have fear stuck in her body. There are ways to heal this issue. I discuss them in my new book, Orgasm For Life.
Most women need 20 – 40 minutes to reach orgasm. Most men last between 2 and 10 minutes. See the problem?
Women need their sexual energy raised. They need romance, to be told they are beautiful, and to be turned on outside the bedroom and romanced in her mind, before her body begins to get turned on. Women are different than men, in more than their physical attributes. Our wiring is completely different. We need intimacy to have sex. Where men need sex to have intimacy. Our minds need to be in the game. We need to focus on the moment, rather than all the things we did not do during the day and that may still face us tomorrow. We need to relax, focus and breathe. Most women have issues with all the above. 80% of women fake it for a reason. 40% of women have some type of sexual dysfunction. Find out how to turn her on tonight on my podcast…. here are a few ways to get you started.
- Breathe through an open mouth.
- Be present in the moment.
- Move your hips.
- Squeeze the pelvic floor muscles rhythmically.
- Make sounds.
- Focus on what is happening in the bedroom – rather than the chores you did not do.
- Make eye contact with your partner. (Some women disassociate during sex – like leaving their body – rather than being and staying present)
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Jennifer is a life, sex and love coach. She helps women and men love themselves fearlessly. She also assists with sexual dysfunction. She is an ordained minister, hypnotherapist,
Neurolinguistic Programming Practitioner, Energy Healer and catalystic healer. Just talking to Jennifer can bring up your issues.
She works with people committed to heal their lives, and live a life of passion and happiness, grounded in the moment. She assist people with clutter of the mind and home. When there is harmony inside there will be harmony in the home. When there is clutter in the mind, there will be clutter in the home. Whatever is going on inside you is reflected in your outside world. Jennifer empowers, encourages and gives you a swift kick in the ass when you most need it – with compassion and directness. She will be your biggest cheerleader. She will be your biggest fan. She will get to know you and treat you with the respect you deserve. Visit her website here.